Monday 20 June 2011

[PF:165553] Pakistan, Waziristan: 80 Percent people mentally ill

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The drone attacks by US spy planes and acts of terrorism have not only affected the mental health of tribesmen but also the people of settled areas.

"About 80 per cent residents of South and North Waziristan agencies have been affected mentally while 60 per cent people of Peshawar are nearing to become psychological patients if these problems are not addressed immediately," according to a survey conducted by an NGO, Horizon.

Conducted under the supervision of noted psychologist Dr Khalid Mufti, the survey said that seven to nine per cent children became victims of phobia owing to consistent telecast of terrorism related scenes by TV channels.

The skyrocketing price hike, energy crisis, lawlessness and untidiness had also made many people mentally retarded, it added.

It would be very difficult to save future of youth if the existing situation remained unchanged, said Dr Mufti. He urged TV channels to avoid telecasting footage of terrorism related incidents to improve mental health of people and children exposed to phobia and other disorders.

Underling the need for creating jobs opportunities and recreational activities to improve lives of people in restive areas, Dr Mufti said that owing to economic disparity, torture and domestic disputes, people of the affected areas were inclining to use of narcotics.

During the last one decade, he said, youths were confronted with mental and economic pressure while children and women were exposed to depression owing to uncertain situation.

"These problems need to be addressed for survival of our young generation and improving lifestyle of people," he added.

Dr Mufti appealed to people to work for establishment of a peaceful society to get rid of mental worries, problems and use of drugs. "For this purpose every segment of the society has to play a positive and constructive role," he said.

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Re: [PF:165558] Indian teenager stabbed in eye during attempted rape

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On Mon, Jun 20, 2011 at 2:49 PM, ήΛȘİŔ ȘΛttΛŔ <nasir.sattar87@gmail.com> wrote:
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On Mon, Jun 20, 2011 at 3:30 PM, Arun Bansi <arunbansi@gmail.com> wrote:

A 14-year-old girl has been stabbed in the eye as she fought off two men who attempted to rape her in the Indian state of Uttar Pradesh, police say.

She was attacked in Gadwa Buzurg village in the Kannauj district of the northern state. She lost one eye and the other was also seriously damaged.

Correspondents say Uttar Pradesh is one of India's most lawless states where women are accorded a very low status.

Last week a girl's body was found hanging from a tree in police premises.

The girl's parents have alleged that she was raped and murdered and that the police in the Nighasan area of Lakhimpur district had offered them a bribe to keep quiet.

Police initially tried to pass off the death as a case of suicide, but after protests, a second post-mortem was ordered which concluded that the girl was murdered by strangulation.

Eleven policemen have been suspended in connection with the case.

Details about the latest incident emerged late on Sunday. The girl was attacked on Friday night by two men from her own village, senior district police official Rajendra Singh told the BBC.

One of the two attackers has been arrested and the police are looking for the second man, he said.

Two policemen in the area, who initially refused to lodge the parents complaint, have been suspended.

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[PF:165552] Kayani: Fabricated News "country had been mortgaged to the US"

The military`s public affairs wing denied on Monday that Chief of Army Staff Gen Ashfaq Parvez Kayani had suggested that the country had been mortgaged to the US.

"The entire statement is fabricated with malicious intent. COAS Gen Ashfaq Parvez Kayani never said that Pakistan had mortgaged itself to the US," Inter-Services Public Relations (ISPR) Director General Maj-Gen Athar Abbas said while commenting on a New York Times report.

The NYT, in a June 15 report titled `Pakistan`s chief of army fights to keep his job`, had claimed on the basis of notes of a participant of a session at the National Defence University addressed by Gen Kayani that the army chief had acknowledged that the country had mortgaged itself to the US. The participant was not identified in the news report.

"In making the analogy to Pakistan as a mortgaged house, Gen Kayani said that if a person gave his house against a loan and was unable to pay back the loan, the mortgage holder would intervene," the report said.

It went on to quote Gen Kayani as having said: "We are helpless… Can we fight America?"

After the May 2 US raid in Abbottabad, Gen Kayani held a number of town-hall style meetings with army officers in garrisons, trying to allay their concerns about the country`s alliance with the United States in the fight against militancy. His address at the NDU was the last of such meetings.

There has been a flurry of reports in US media casting the military in a negative light by questioning its sincerity in the fight against militancy. The NYT story, which sought to project Gen Kayani as a weakened commander struggling to keep control over his ranks, is seen by ISPR as a continuation of the campaign against the army.

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[PF:165551] The C.I.A. created a "monster" that is today Afghanistan's ruling Taliban

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The Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) worked in tandem with Pakistan to create the "monster" that is today Afghanistan's ruling Taliban, a leading US expert on South Asia said here.

"I warned them that we were creating a monster," Selig Harrison from the Woodrow Wilson International Centre for Scholars said at the conference here last week on "Terrorism and Regional Security: Managing the Challenges in Asia."

Harrison said: "The CIA made a historic mistake in encouraging Islamic groups from all over the world to come to Afghanistan." The US provided $3 billion for building up these Islamic groups, and it accepted Pakistan's demand that they should decide how this money should be spent, Harrison said.

Harrison, who spoke before the Taliban assault on the Buddha statues was launched, told the gathering of security experts that he had meetings with CIA leaders at the time when Islamic forces were being strengthened in Afghanistan. "They told me these people were fanatical, and the more fierce they were the more fiercely they would fight the Soviets," he said. "I warned them that we were creating a monster."

Harrison, who has written five books on Asian affairs and US relations with Asia, has had extensive contact with the CIA and political leaders in South Asia. Harrison was a senior associate of the Carnegie Endowment for International Peace between 1974 and 1996.

Harrison who is now senior fellow with The Century Foundation recalled a conversation he had with the late Gen Zia-ul Haq of Pakistan. "Gen Zia spoke to me about expanding Pakistan's sphere of influence to control Afghanistan, then Uzbekistan and Tajikstan and then Iran and Turkey," Harrison said. That design continues, he said. Gen.Mohammed Aziz who was involved in that Zia plan has been elevated now to a key position by Chief Executive, Gen. Pervez Musharraf, Harrison said.

The old associations between the intelligence agencies continue, Harrison said. "The CIA still has close links with the ISI (Pakistan's Inter-Services Intelligence)."

Today that money and those weapons have helped build up the Taliban, Harrison said. "The Taliban are not just recruits from 'madrassas' (Muslim theological schools) but are on the payroll of the ISI (Inter Services Intelligence, the intelligence wing of the Pakistani government)." The Taliban are now "making a living out of terrorism."

Harrison said the UN Security Council resolution number 1333 calls for an embargo on arms to the Taliban. "But it is a resolution without teeth because it does not provide sanctions for non-compliance," he said. "The US is not backing the Russians who want to give more teeth to the resolution."

Now it is Pakistan that "holds the key to the future of Afghanistan," Harrison said. The creation of the Taliban was central to Pakistan's "pan-Islamic vision," Harrison said.

It came after "the CIA made the historic mistake of encouraging Islamic groups from all over the world to come to Afghanistan," he said. The creation of the Taliban had been "actively encouraged by the ISI and the CIA," he said. "Pakistan has been building up Afghan collaborators who will sustain Pakistan," he said. (1)

[(C) 'Times of India', 2001 Reprinted for Fair Use Only

Jared Israel comments:

This article includes some useful information but is misleading. It appears to strongly underestimate U.S. 'help' to the Taliban, suggests more Pakistani control than may have been the case, and views Washington's aid merely as a mistake. A 'N.Y. Times' article that appeared in 1998 (see: http://emperors-clothes.com/docs/camps.htm) suggests the CIA/NATO was directly involved. This of course makes it harder to suggest, as Mr. Harrison does, that "encouraging Islamic groups from all over the world to come to Afghanistan" was simply a mistake, something sold by Pakistan and stupidly bought by Washington. Washington's relations with and various uses of Islamist terrorism (or, as Washington sometimes likes to say, 'freedom fighters') is discussed in 'Credible Deception' at http://emperors-clothes.com/articles/jared/sudan.html#s

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[PF:165550] Seymour Hersh on the Myths of War on Terror

Legendary American journalist Seymour Hersh gave a CIRS (Centre for International and Regional Studies) Distinguished Lecture titled "The Obama/Bush Foreign Policies: Why Can't America Change?" before an audience of 800 members of the community in Doha at an event hosted by Georgetown University School of Foreign Service on January 17, 2011.

Seymour Hersh is Pulitzer Prize-winning investigative journalist and author based in Washington, D.C. He is a regular contributor to The New Yorker magazine on military and security matters. He has also won two National Magazine Awards and is a "five-time Polk winner and recipient of the 2004 George Orwell Award."

His work first gained worldwide recognition in 1969 for exposing the My Lai Massacre and its cover-up during the Vietnam War, for which he received the 1970 Pulitzer Prize for International Reporting. He exposed the CIA's domestic spying on US citizens in a New York Times front page story in 1974. In 2002, he broke the story of how Dick Cheney and Musharraf arranged the airlift of thousands of Al-Qaeda, Taliban, and Pakistani operatives out of Kunduz into Pakistan's tribal areas in November 2001. His 2004 reports on the US military's mistreatment of detainees at Abu Ghraib prison gained much attention.

We reproduce below some select parts of his speech. The full text can be accessed through this link. 
http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2011/01/22/transcript_the_obamabush_foreign_policies_why_cant_america_change?page=full

1. "In any case, Obama did abdicate, very quickly, any control, I think right away, to the people that are running the war, for what reason I don't know."

2. " I would argue that, what I'm really writing about is, about how eight or nine neoconservative whackos, if you will, overthrew the American government. Took it over. And it's not only that. It's not only that the neocons took it over, it's how easily they did it."

3. " So, but in the Cheney shop – I can write about it in ways I could not then, because I didn't want to expose anybody who was there – in the Cheney shop the attitude was, "What's this? What? What are they all worried about, the politicians and the press, they're all worried about some looting? And wait a second, Sunnis don't like Shia? And there's no WMD? And there's no democracy? Don't they get it? We're going to change mosques into cathedrals. And when we get hold of all the oil, nobody' s going to give a damn." That's the attitude: "We're going to change mosques into cathedrals."

4. "That's an attitude that pervades, I'm here to say, a large percentage of the Special Operations Command, the Joint Special Operations Command and Stanley McChrystal, the one who got in trouble because of the article in Rolling Stone, and his follow-on, a Navy admiral named McRaven, Bill McRaven – all are members or at least supporters of Knights of Malta. McRaven attended, so I understand, the recent annual convention of the Knights of Malta they had in Cyprus a few months back in November. They're all believers – many of them are members of Opus Dei. They do see what they are doing – and this is not an atypical attitude among some military – it's a crusade, literally. They see themselves as the protectors of the Christians. They're protecting them from the Muslims in the 13th century. And this is their function. They have little insignias, they have coins they pass among each other, which are crusader coins, and they have insignia that reflect that, the whole notion that this is a war, it's culture war."

5. " And yet every time American Predators are going off, controlled by the CIA or the Air Force, going off, hitting targets (more and more in Pakistan) that are undefined, that the intelligence is not very clear on, often very bad, collateral damage is enormously high because we're going after a member of the, let's say the Pakistani Taliban, and in that society the women live right next to the men, they're in separate quarters but they're there, and boom the Predator wipes out a whole building, clearly, and kills an enormous amount of people who have nothing to do with… they're non combatants. None of these missions are approved anywhere except the military chain of command. It's a very strange system and he [Obama] has not tampered with it."

6. "You know, it is, up to a point, about oil. When I started looking at Cheney from a different point of view, like, two years ago, I didn't think so: I thought ideology, I thought protecting Israel… a lot of it is oil. You talk to people and they will tell you, "Yeah, there's the wind and the sun but you [inaudible] it in America and where is it coming from?" And there's always been an understanding. We tolerate the Saudis, we support the Saudis, who we know supply an awful lot of salafists, and they're still, their various charities are supplying often the same people we're targeting and there is certainly, they're certainly… we see them, for instance, in the Iraqi war supporting the Sunnis, the Sunni Awakening, etc. I mean, implicit… I would argue that there's nothing subtle about what we do, morally. If you think about it – again this is something I talked about earlier – we and the Brits always assume some imperial right to oil in the Middle East. "

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[PF:165549] U R D U -- خاموشی کی جاذبیت








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کچھ لوگ بہت کم  بولتے ہیں اور  محفلوں یا بیٹھکوں میں انکی آواز خال خال ہی سنائی دیتی ہے۔ اگر  ان لوگوں کا بغور مشاہدہ کیا جائے تو محض ان کے سر  ہلتے ہوئے نظر آئیں گے یا پھر انہماک اور  توجہ سے بھرپور آنکھیں یا پھر چہرے پر آئی ہوئی مسکراہٹ اور  بدلتے ہوئے تأثرات۔۔۔ بات چیت کریں گے تو کبھی کبھار اور وہ بھی مختصر۔ ان سب باتوں کے باوجود بھی ان لوگوں کو پسند بھی کیا جاتا ہے اور یہ لوگ محفل کی جان بھی سمجھے جاتے ہیں۔

 

معاشرے میں نمایاں اثر رکھنے والے اور کامیاب ترین لوگ ہمیشہ اچھے سامع اور دوسروں کی باتوں کو غور سے سننے والے لوگ رہے ہیں۔ زیادہ باتیں کرنا کبھی بھی کامیاب شخصیت کی علامت نہیں رہا اور نا ہی زیادہ باتیں کرنے والے لوگ با اثر ہوتے ہیں۔ بلکہ زیادہ بولنے والے کی گفتگو کے اختتام  پر اُسکی کی ہوئی باتوں پر دلیلیں اور پھر  وضاحتیں دینے کا کام شروع ہو جایا کرتا ہے۔

 

ماہرین سماجی نفسیات کہتے ہیں کہ لوگوں کو محبت اور غور سے سننے والے اصل میں لوگوں کے دلوں پر حکومت کرنے کا راز جاننے والے لوگ ہوا کرتے ہیں اور لوگوں سے اُنکے تعلقات ہمیشہ ثمر آور ہوا کرتے ہیں۔

 

ایک اچھا سامع ہونا بھی مہارت کا کام  ہے۔ کچھ لوگ تو یہ بھی بھول جاتے ہیں کہ اللہ تبارک و تعالیٰ نے بولنے کیلئے تو ایک زبان مگر سننے کیلئے دو کان بنائے ہیں تاکہ سُنا زیادہ اور بولا کم جائے۔ اگر آپ سننے کی عادت ڈالنے کا ارادہ کر ہی لیں تو یہ بات ضرور یاد رکھیں کہ چاہے بولنے والے کی بات پر آ پکو اعتراض ہی کیوں نا ہوا کرے اُسے بات پوری کرنے کا موقع دیا کریں۔

 

مشہور مصنف سٹیفن کوفی اپنی کتاب (کامیاب ترین لوگوں کی سات عادتیں) میں ایک ایسے شخص  کے ساتھ کی ہوئی اپنی گفتگو کا ذکر کرتے ہوئے لکھتا ہے جس کے اپنے بیٹے کے ساتھ تعلقات خراب تھے۔

اُس آدمی نے سٹیفن کو بتایا: میں  اپنے بیٹے کو سمجھ نہیں پا رہا،  کیونکہ وہ میری بات سننا ہی نہیں چاہتا۔

سٹیفن نے کہا:  دیکھو، جو کچھ تم نے مجھے بتایا  ہے میں اُسے اِن الفاظ میں ترتیب دیکر تمہیں بتاتا ہوں: تم اپنے بیٹے کو سمجھ ہی نہیں پا رہے کیونکہ تمہارا بیٹا تمہاری کوئی بات سُننا ہی نہیں چاہتا۔

اُس آدمی نے کہا؛ جی، میری بات کا یہی مطلب تھا۔

سٹیفن نے کہا: میں تمہاری بات کو تمہیں ایک اور انداز سے بتاتا ہوں کہ تم اپنے بیٹے کو سمجھ ہی نہیں پا رہے کیونکہ وہ تمہاری باتوں کو ہرگز سُننا ہی نہیں چاہتا۔

اُس آدمی نے بیزاری سے کہا: جی جناب، میری بات کا یہی مطلب ہے۔

سٹیفن نے پھر کہا: میرا تو خیال یہ بنتا ہے کہ تم کسی ایسے آدمی کو سمجھ ہی نہیں پا رہے جس کو تُم سُننا نہیں چاہتے۔

اُس باپ کے منہ سے ایک آہ (صدمہ کی سی کیفیت سے) نکلی، پھر ایک طویل خاموشی کا وقفہ آیا،  اُس نے پھر ایک بار کہا : اوہ ہ ہ ہ

یہ باپ ایسے لوگوں میں سے ایک چھوٹی سی مثال ہے جو  یہ کہہ کہہ کر نہیں تھکتے کہ مجھے تمہاری سمجھ ہی نہیں آ رہی، جبکہ حقیقت میں تو اُس نے نا تمہاری بات سنی ہے اور نا ہی آ پ کو اس قابل بنایا ہے کہ آپ بھی اُس کی بات کو سنو۔

 

آئیے لگے ہاتھوں ایک قصہ سنیئے۔۔۔

 

نبوت کے ابتدائی زمانے میں جب کہ مسلمانوں کی تعداد چند ایک ہی تھی، کفار زور و شور سے نبوت کو  جھٹلانے کے ساتھ ساتھ  سرکار صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کو پاگل (مجنون) اور جادوگر  جیسے طعنے دیکر طنز و تشیع  کیاکرتے تھے۔ ایسے میں مکہ میں ایک شخص آیا جس کا نام ضماد تھا۔۔۔

ضماد پیشے کے لحاظ سے طبیب تھا، جسمانی بیماریوں کے ساتھ ساتھ لوگوں کے پاگل پن اور اُن پر کیئے گئے جادو اور جنات کے اثرات کا بھی علاج کیا کرتا تھا۔

ضماد لوگوں سے مل ملا کر ابھی بیٹھ ہی رہا تھا کہ شور سا اُٹھا؛ وہ دیکھو پاگل آ گیا۔۔۔۔

ضماد نے پوچھا: کدھر ہے وہ پاگل شخص، ہو سکتا ہے اِسے میرے ہاتھوں شفا مل جائے۔

لوگوں نے اُسے محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے سامنے لا کھڑا کیا۔

ضماد جب سرکار صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم سے ملا تو کہا: اے محمد (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)، میں ایسی بیماریوں کیلئے دم درود کرتا ہوں اور اللہ جسے چاہتا ہے میرے ہاتھوں سے شفا دے دیتا ہے، اگر کہو تو میں تمہارا علاج کر دوں؟

اور ضماد لگا بولنے اپنے علاج، طریقہ علاج اور علاج سے شفا پانے والوں کے بارے میں، اور میرے سرکار صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم لگے سننے اُسکی باتوں کو، یہ بولتا جا رہا ہے اور سرکار سنتے جا رہے ہیں۔

کیا آپ جاننا چاہتے ہیں کہ سرکار صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کس شخص کو اس قدر توجہ سے سن رہے تھے؟

جی ہاں؛ ایک کافر کو، اور کافر بھی وہ جو اُن کے پاگل پن کا علاج کرنا چاہتا تھا۔

جب ضماد اپنی بات مکمل کر چکا تو سرکار دوعالم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے کہا:

إن الحمد للہ، نحمدہ و نستعینہ

من یھدہ اللہ فلا مضل لہ و من یضلل فلا ھادی لہ،

و أشھد اَن لا الہ إلا اللہ وحدہ لا شریک لہ،

ضماد نے حیرت کے ایک جھٹکے سے جھرجھری سی لی اور کہا؛ اپنی بات کو ذرا پھر سے دُہرانا، اور سرکار صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے اپنی کہی ہوئی بات کو ایک بار پھر دُہرا دیا۔

ضماد نے کہا؛ اللہ کی قسم، میں نے تعویذ و گنڈے کرنے والوں اور کاہنوں کے کلام بھی سنے ہیں اور جادو گروں کے منتر بھی، میں نے شاعروں کے کلام بھی سُنے ہیں مگر ایسا کلام  کبھی نہیں سُنا جو سمندروں سے زیادہ گہرا اثر رکھتا ہو۔ کیا تم (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) مجھے اپنا ہاتھ نہیں دوگے کہ اُسے تھام کر اپنے اسلام لانے کیلئے بیعت کر لوں؟

سرکار صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے اپنا ہاتھ ضماد کی طرف بڑھایا اور ضماد آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے ساتھ دُہرا رہا تھا (أشھد أن لا الہ إلا اللہ و أشھد أن محمد عبدہ و رسولہ)۔

سرکار کو جب پتہ چلا کہ ضماد اپنے قبیلے کا معزز  اور عزت و افتخار والا شخص ہے تو آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے ضماد سے کہا؛ تو پھر تم اپنی قوم کیلئے بھی (تو کچھ کروگے ناں)؟

ضماد نے کہا؛ ہاں یا رسول اللہ (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)، میں اپنی قوم کیلئے بھی (ہدایت کا پیغام لے کر جاؤنگا)۔ اور ضماد اپنی قوم کیلئے ہدایت اور دعوت کا پیغام لے کر روانہ ہوگیا۔

دانا کہتے ہیں؛ اگر جاہلوں کے ساتھ بیٹھو تو اُنہیں خاموشی سے سُنو، اور اگر علماء کے ساتھ بیٹھو تو اُنہیں بھی خاموشی سے سُنو، جاہلوں کو خاموشی سے سُننے پر تمہارے حلم اور بُردباری میں اضافہ ہوگا، اور علماء کو خاموشی سے سُننے پر تمہارے علم میں اضافہ ہوگا۔

 

تو کیا پھر کیا خیال ہے آپ بھی ایک اچھے سامع بننا چاہتے ہیں؟

تو پھر سنتے رہیئے۔ سر کو ہلا کر اپنی موجودگی اور بھرپور توجہ کا اظہار کرتے ہوئے۔  اور اپنے تأثرات کا اظہار کرنا تو بہت ہی ضروری ہے چاہے  بولنے والا چھوٹا ہو یا بڑا۔ جی ہاں سنتے رہیئے، یہ احساس دلانے کیلئے کہ بولنے والا آپ کیلئے کتنا اھم ہے ، اِسی طرح ہی تو آپ اُسکا دل جیت پائیں گے۔


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Over the last decade, Greece went on a debt binge that came crashing to an end in late 2009, provoking an economic crisis. Over the next two years, Greece relied on bailout money from its richer neighbors and implemented austerity measures meant to cut its bloated deficit and restore investor confidence. But by June 2011 it found itself deep in a second recession, near the end of its cash and facing a political crisis, as anti-austerity demonstrations grew. Violence broke out this week during one of those demonstrations, injuring 11, as the frustration continued to grow and no quick fixes emerged. Today, Greece's Prime Minister George Papandreou, in a broad cabinet reshuffle, appointed a new Finance Minister, Evangelos Venizelos, in hopes of turning his country around.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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[karachi-Friends] KASHMIR: A HUMANITARIAN CATASTROPHE



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                                                                                                     By Dr. Anwar Ul Haque
There are many man made catastrophes; one of which is Kashmir. The fact and 
reality is that Kashmiris do not want to live with India. It is a simple fact 
which India and International community knows very well! Kashmiris want 
fulfillment of Pundit Nehru's commitment that we will not hold Kashmir under 
gun. If they want to separate from us and join Pakistan, it is their decision. 
But extremists and so called non extremists Hindus all forgot to fulfill the 
commitment and honor the UNO resolutions which asked for a plebiscite to seek 
the will of Kashmiris. Since 1947 India is keeping a huge military presence 
amounting 700,000 men strong army and so far had killed about 80,000 innocent 
Kashmiris and tortured, raped and maimed far more numbers. These facts are not 
seen by any Western Leader and there is hardly any embargo on India for its open 
and flagrant violation of UNO resolutions and humanity.
When Obama and Michelle Obama were dancing in India they hardly thought of the 
plight of so many sufferers of Indian state terrorism and torture. They could 
not see the tears of Kashmiris, Muslims, Christians, Sikhs and Dalits! Indian 
terrorism is not only against Kashmiris but also against great Muslims minority 
which constitutes about 25% of Indian population (Given only 3% Government jobs 
and that is of menial nature), Sikhs who were brutally massacred in thousands 
after the murder of Indira Gandhi and also against Christians whose' Churches 
are regularly torched. What about Dalits whom Brahmins call "untouchables"? What 
about women, girls and even unborn or newly born female children?
>The Hindu cast system is extremely racist and can only be compared with the 
>Zionist racism which considers all non Jews as gentile (In Hebrew meaning 
>bastards!). According to the Zionists "scholars" (Whom Quran refers to as 
>donkeys carrying books on their backs meaning as donkey can't benefit form 
>books, these so called scholars are unable to derive any benefit from books 
>except the burden of the books!) gentiles can be killed, robbed, deprived of 
>justice etc without any remorse and regret. The Zionist courts are supposed to 
>give the verdict strictly in favor of Zionists. The most ruthless such Talmudic 
>deliberations can be seen in case of Dr. Aafia where all allegations against her 
>did not hold water. Even the gun which she allegedly picked up did not have her 
>finger prints! All so called al-Qaeeda connections and Jihad involvement went 
>with the wind and the prosecutor could not dare to bring those allegations for 
>punishment. Aafia was given over 80 years rigorous imprisonment for no crimes 
>except her love and care for American people. Her innocent children were 
>tortured by American forces and their puppet Karazi who kept Ahmad in chains for 
>years and also held 300 Arab children. Of course no Human Rights organization 
>can see all this. Same was true in case of first attack on World Trade 
>Center  several years before 9/11 where innocent Palestinian driver Salameh was 
>punished for life for a sin and crime which was committed by Mossad agent Josie 
>Hadas rather than by him. Poor guy was even unaware of the crime committed 
>secretly by his boss. Despite CNN's breaking news showing  Josie Hadas' 
>apartment with bomb drawings and material she was let go off the hook and she is 
>now comfortably living in Israel after killing 5 innocent Americans. Of course 
>those Americans were gentiles and thus deserved killings in light of verdict of 
>Talmud. So may it be President of United States of America like John F. Kennedy 
>or princes like Diana or Rachel Cori all were victims of Zionist racists. Their 
>crimes are not limited to Israel itself but rather spread all over the world! 
>9/11 is another Israeli drama and game. Not only many Americans but also over 50 
>Pakistanis were killed. What Muslim would get from attacking a shopping plaza! 
>What Israelis got? Restoration of trillion dollar heroin smuggling for Zionist 
>controlled world drug mafia. Same is the situation in case of Mumbai Taj Mahal 
>Hotel attack! What Pakistani Muslims will achieve by attacking a hotel and 
>killing few innocent people having their meals!  As we know now that this was a 
>joint Indian Israeli venture to bring Pakistan under pressure. Qadyanis who are 
>surrogate children of Zionists and had full backing of Pundit Nehru and now on 
>key positions in Pakistan such as Naval Chief, Secretary Foreign Affairs and 
>Interior Minister of Pakistan all played key role. The interesting thing is that 
>like word Al-Qaeeda,  the word Ajmal Qasab is very funny. Quran categorically 
>condemns Al-Qaeeda which means sitting people who do not participate in genuine 
>Jihad in the path of Allah for the sake of justice and truth. Qasab stands for 
>butcher in Pakistan and India and under Hindu cast system the word is a 
>derogatory one and no one in Pakistan keeps this name. It is a name. All Qasab 
>have transformed themselves into Qureshi in Pakistan (Of course wrongly as they 
>have no bearing with Qureshi of Arabs and same is true for Syeds; vast majority 
>of whom have no relation with the Prophet (PBUH) and this also applies to 
>"Prince" Karim Aga Khan (A devout Ismaili shockingly  found out this fact after 
>he wrote a book in praise of Aga Khan please visit www.mostmerciful.com).
>At the time of creation of Pakistan and Bharat (So called India) in 1947 three 
>options were given to the states:1)      Join Pakistan
>2)      Join India
>3)      Remain independent
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>India violated the principles and captured Pakistani states of Kashmir and Juna 
>Gar and also took over princely state of Hyderabad Dakkan killing about 300,000 
>Muslims according to Sunder La'l report of Indira Gandhi and burning 80,000 most 
>precious Urdu books in Usmania University Library.
>Kashmir is Muslim majority territory which hates Indian racism and injustice and 
>is fighting for genuine independence. This war had been labeled as cross border 
>terrorism! The Indian state terrorism with 700,000 men army is not terrorism!
>As now Egyptians are fighting for democracy and peoples representative 
>Government, USA and European Governments under direct Zionists slavery are 
>playing another drama. Bring a Zardari in place of Mushrraf! These Governments 
>have never supported genuine democracy let alone Islam in Muslim countries. 
>Iran's popular Government of Dr. Mussadiq was thrown out by CIA which imposed 
>Shah on them for decades. Then tactfully Khomini was brought to further defame 
>Islam by associating it with terrorism. Yaser Arafat and Hizbullah are other 
>actors of Zionism which play the roles of enemies in typical American wrestling 
>matches pattern!  
>On this  5th February 2011. We declare that not only Kashmir will be Insha Allah 
>liberated but also Hyderabad Dakkan and Juna Gar. Suppressed Sikhs and Dalits 
>will be fully supported by all those who have conscience and honesty in their 
>hearts. Unborn and newly born Indian female children will be supported who are 
>slaughtered in millions every year. All minorities suffering at the hands of 
>Brahmin terrorists and Zionist will be fully supported and all must unite to 
>fight Brahman and Zionist racism across the world!  American and European 
>Governments have to be liberated so that they may not keep suppressing their won 
>people at the altar of Racist Zionist Criminals. See how many lives of Americans 
>and Europeans are given to Iraq and Afghanistan Zionist wars, to Zionists drug 
>mafia and to USS Liberty (www.ussliberty.org) and to the ruthless IMF and World 
>Banks and Free Mason, Rotary Club and so called Lions club!
>From Palestine to Kabul, From Chechnya to Kashmir, From New York to Moscow, From  London to Paris;  all are victims of Zionist mafia and their collaborators! We 
will NOT accept and tolerate Zionist made policies and Zionists agents. We must 
hold tightly the rope of Allah i.e. Quran-e-Majeed and see how soon we defeat 
all these satanic forces.
 
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